Destiny

.... People always using the word 'takdir' whenever something bad happened to them. I always thght that it was actually an excuse for not being able to reach the goal that we have set. What & Who we r when we were born is called 'fate'.. but what you'll become is called 'destiny'.. A story below might help us to understand what our destiny is..

There was a woman who always complained about her destiny. One day he met an old wise man. This woman says, " Am I already destined to do this and that "..

The old wise man said, "It is you who make your destiny."

"But surely I am not responsible for being born a woman?"

"Being born a woman isn't destiny.That is fate. Destiny is how you accept your womanhood and what you make of it.